What kind of male do i attract
What is your hair like? Light and curly. Dark and curly. Dark and straight. Light and straight. What is your favorite thing to do? Hang out with friends or on my phone. Exercise or shop. Listen to music or read. Sleep or play guitar. What kind of music do you like? Fall Out Boy and other cool bands.
Rock and heavy metal. Some pop music and alternative, love songs, 5sos, anything good. What sort of clothes do you like best? Simple, plain but tight clothes like a fitted t-shirt and shorts. Cute, trendy stuff. In a pony tail. I like for it to be long and curled.
Short and styled. I like to try different styles. I eat whatever I want whenever I want. I try my best to eat healthy and I like to cook. I eat out a lot, I don't like to cook. I cook a lot but I also eat out a lot too. What quality do you like most in a man? How often do you want to see your man? As much as possible. Ideally everyday, but we can have our own hobbies. It's okay if he's away for work once in a while.
I'm understanding if he has to be gone for long periods of time. Where would you like to go on vacation? This man is unpredictable and always doing something fun and exciting. He likes to travel and will bring you along with him so be prepared to drop what your doing if you want to join him for a spontaneous weekend getaway. He might have a motorcycle or a fast car. He might smoke or drink. He also might not settle down with you. But there is something about him Nice Guy. This man probably has a good job, a nice car and maybe even goes to church.
He will take you out on a proper date and will be excited to introduce you to his mom. He won't pressure you to do things you're not comfortable with and takes things slow.
He is sweet and kind. He will spend time listening to your feelings and will probably even share some of his own. Neither you nor the relationship benefits from what he takes from you. You are insecure. Being insecure and having low self-esteem can attract needy and clingy men who use you.
It's important to have your self-esteem in order before you begin dating so that it sends a message to parasitic men that you don't need them. Women who are secure with themselves are less likely to attract parasitic men. These types of boys are actually the worst. He blames you for things that aren't your fault.
He talks to you like you are a child. He uses an intimidating tone to others when asking for help. He criticizes your character and possibly even your children. You have problems maintaining emotional boundaries. You don't instinctively know where to draw the lines of emotional responsibility between yourself and others.
You seek to win over others by pleasing them or casting yourself in a favorable light, to your detriment. This boundary issue typically stems from carrying the burden of others' emotions for which you aren't responsible.
When you become clear about where to take responsibility and where your emotional responsibility ends, you can better manage the boundaries. He will agree with anything you say. He has low self-esteem. He has no sense of self-confidence. He is unable to voice or argue his opinions or desires.
You are a controlling woman who tends to appear to have their stuff together. If you're a controlling woman, you easily attract or should I say, go after and find pushover men. These men love you because they identify in you elements of maturity they don't possess.
Unfortunately, most of these guys never evolve and instead permanently take the role of "yes men. He's married, engaged, a father, or in a relationship with another woman.
Please note, if he's married and only separated, it still means he's married. You have low self-esteem and no self-love. No matter the excuse, if you're carrying on a "relationship" with someone who is in another relationship, you are exhibiting one of the lowest forms of self-love and self-respect.
If you're "dating" a cheater, you are in fact a cheater yourself and are likely to be snide towards the people closest to you. Chances are, your family and friends have voiced concern over whom you're involved with and as a result, your relationship with them has grown strained.
While I don't believe friends and family are the best relationship experts, if they all are telling you the same thing, listen! He's probably in a band, has a killer fashion sense, great hair or beard, and is the coolest dude. He's been traveling all over the world and has so many stories to tell. He's also really smart and knows what's trendy and cool.
If you're attracted to Mr.
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